Equality of what? Addressing Common Misconceptions
While issues like racism and colonialism resonate widely due to their universal impact, gender discrimination often lacks the same level of empathy.
There are many debates surrounding the gender equality movement which often leads to misunderstandings. The word “equality” may sound controversial, as some interpret it as negating the biological differences between sexes. Some see the movement as promoting male-female competition or division, which can indeed happen when the true essence of the conversation is lost.
Working in a male-dominated industry, I have faced moments that highlight these misconceptions. For example, when I ask for help with physically demanding tasks, some respond with remarks like, “But you advocate for equality—why can’t you do this yourself?” Such comments, while hurtful, reflect a deeper issue: a lack of understanding about what gender equality truly seeks to achieve.
Equality vs. Equity: What Are We Talking About?
Some people argue that the term should be “equity” rather than “equality“. To have meaningful discussion, we need to clarify these terms:
Equality: means ensuring everyone has the same value and access to rights and opportunities.
Equity: acknowledges individual differences and circumstances, aiming to implement actions and allocate resources so everyone can achieve the “same” or “equal” outcomes___ the end result there being “equality.”
Gender equality, then, is not about erasing biological differences but about creating a world where those differences do not limit a person’s potential, opportunities, or rights.
Every movement that exists was started by someone to address a particular problem. Regardless of whether you support the movement, it is essential to understand the origins of the idea of equality. Exploring why certain concepts emerged can help ease tensions and minimize conflicts.
Why Is Gender Equality Needed?
Historically, women have faced systemic barriers and were often denied basic rights such as voting, owning property, accessing education, or even choosing their life paths. This led to the emergence of the suffrage movement, which aimed to secure women’s right to vote in political matters. The struggle for gender equality has persisted to this day, addressing numerous challenges women continue to face in society.
While significant progress has been made, disparities persist. These gaps are not just about women—they affect all genders, including men and gender-diverse people.
For instance, rigid expectations harm men by discouraging emotional vulnerability, just as societal norms have limited women’s autonomy and opportunities. True gender equality seeks to address these issues for everyone, creating a world where humanity comes before gender.
Moving Beyond Misconceptions
I acknowledge that the movement has been hijacked by certain people with devious intentions, which is a common occurrence in any type of movement, whether it be religious, social, or cultural. While some are genuine about it, many hold selfish interests behind it. However, this does not negate the original intention of the initiative.
It’s important to recognize that movements for equality aren’t about erasing biological differences or claiming that everyone is the same. Instead, they aim to ensure fairness and justice for all. While some may misuse or misrepresent these movements, the core intent remains genuine: building a more equitable and harmonious society.
Questions for Reflection
To foster understanding and growth, it is important to ask ourselves some questions for deep reflection:
- How would I feel if I were valued less because of an inherent characteristic, such as my skin color, ethnicity, or qualifications?
- Do I subconsciously place more value or show more respect to one gender over another?
- What assumptions or biases might I hold about people of a different gender than mine?
- In what ways might my actions or attitudes contribute to perpetuating gender inequality?
- How does my choice of words or tone reflect my attitudes toward other genders?
- What steps can I take to foster a fairer, more inclusive, and equitable society?
A Vision for the Future
Imagine a world where every person—regardless of gender—has the opportunity to reach their full potential, a world where respect, kindness, and justice guide our actions. This is not just a dream but a possibility if each of us takes responsibility for how we treat others and challenges our biases.
The way forward
Whether or not you choose to support gender equality actively, understanding its purpose is crucial. Disagreements or differing perspectives do not make one side inherently right or wrong—they highlight the need for open dialogue. By striving to be better versions of ourselves and treating others with respect and compassion, we can move closer to a world where fairness is a natural way of life, and discussions about equality become unnecessary.
Let’s work together to create a future where humanity comes first.